Tuesday , 27 Sep 05      

Kelly was able to transfer our updated site files to a floppy disk and bring it home so I can update the site then we'll save it to disk and she'll post it back at work again. I'm not so skilled at the html part of our site, plus the fact I don't have computer/internet access right now at all, this makes it much easier.

Quite a bit has been going on, especially this past weekend. Of course Hurricane Rita skirted our area Friday, and while I don't wish that on anyone, I'm glad it passed us and went into the Texas/Louisiana border. Of course there is still another tropical depression near the Caribbean that will probably move into the Gulf soon, so we'll have to keep watch on it, and hurricane season really doesn't end until the end of November, so while we've passed the peak, there still could be some storms into the months of October and November. I think we were pretty fortunate with Rita because some of the outer bands of rain and wind seemed to hit Slidell and Gulfport/Biloxi pretty hard, but we didn't have but a few small bursts of rain and gusts of wind according to Kelly. I was actually up in Atlanta with my friend Peter and we didn't really encounter any of the effects until we drove home on Saturday morning and went through a couple of strong rain downpours in Alabama.

Why was I in Atlanta? Well, Peter and I had been planning to go up to see Bob Mould for a couple of months before the storm even occurred, and since there aren't going to be any shows close (well, maybe Baton Rouge) for quite awhile, and the fact that we already had tickets, we decided to go up anyway. We drove up to Atlanta early Friday, checked into our hotel, and headed up to Little Five Points. We (I) did a bit of cd shopping, picked up some new discs that Kelly and I had been waiting for, then had dinner at a great Indian restaurant. We figured we should have something that we won't be able to get for awhile, and there was a place right on Moreland across from the record store. It was great, although I'm really going to miss the places in New Orleans. Hopefully those will open back up eventually. After dinner we got coffee at Starbucks (I'm a junkie), dropped off the cd's in the car, and went to the Variety Playhouse to wait out front for doors to open. We didn't have to wait too long and went in to sit down until the bands started playing. The opener was Magnapop, who were local, although Kelly and I both swear we've seen them somewhere before, but can't remember where. Maybe we have one of their cd's or something. Anyway, they were pretty decent. Female lead singer with a female guitarist and male guitarist sharing back-up vocals along with the drummer. The name is pretty fitting, kind of poppy, but more 'rock'. Catchy songs that we nodded our heads to. They played for about 45 minutes. It was an early show (starting at 8.30pm), so after breaking down Magnapop's instruments and setting up the Bob Mould Band's equipment, the band came out timely at 10pm. I saw the old Bob Mould Band open for the Pixies in 1989 as well as Bob solo acoustic, then Sugar on the Copper Blue tour and one other time, and damn if he still didn't rock shit. It was great because along with tunes from his new record, he was playing material that spanned his career on this tour. They blew through an hour straight without him saying a word (same old Bob) playing a mix from his new album and some gems from the Sugar albums. After taking a quick break they came back out and played a 15 minute encore of Husker Du songs, which I wasn't as familiar with, but the crowd went nuts, and they did indeed rock. Finally, after another quick exit and return, they did a final 10 minute encore. Over 20 songs and almost an hour and a half of loud rock goodness. What struck me the most was that the whole band, especially Bob, looked as if they were having a really good time and enjoying themselves. He was cracking smiles and laughing a bit as he looked into the crowd, as well as moving around a bit in front of his amps, which really made an impression that he was doing this because he enjoys it and the fans, and not just going through the moves like a lot of reunited bands touring who just stand there expressionless and only motivation seems to be the money (yes, I am referring to The Pixies who we saw last year). The band he selected to play with him also complemented him well. Brendan Canty played drums and did well, especially with the newer songs that he was singing along to. The bassist (whose name I forgot, but can probably be found on the web somewhere with more info about the Bob Mould tour) was younger, but was excellent in playing and also singing, especially with some of the higher notes that David Barbe used to hit. There was also a keyboardist, who couldn't really be heard from where we were standing (right next to the stage), except when he did some of the 'guitar' solos that Bob didn't play. Overall, it was totally worth the six hour drive up to Atlanta. After the show we drove around a bit, then came back to the hotel and crashed. We got up early the next morning, stopped at IHOP for breakfast, and headed home. I had a wedding reception to go to with Kelly and Peter was going to be driving up to Chattanooga to get some furniture later that afternoon.

I got home a little before 3pm just as the installer was leaving from putting down the first section of new tile in our kitchen. Kelly and I changed and headed back to Gulfport to the wedding reception of our friends Kevin and Melva. It was a nice event with a lot of their family and a bunch of our friends who we sat and chatted with while snacking on the food. It was funny because the local news channel had come to tape a story about their wedding and were leaving just as we arrived. It seems that this was the first actual wedding with full ceremony on the coast since Hurricane Katrina has hit. We caught the story later on our old tv by moving the rabbit ears around to get reception and it was a nice segment. We had stayed until the reception was over and helped to clean up before heading home.

Sunday the installer came back with his sons to finish laying the rest of the tile. I stayed home this time while Kelly went over to Slidell to have a mini cooking party with some of the gals. I watched some anime on Tivo as well as an older independent film I had wanted to see for awhile, 'Beijing Bicycle'. It was a pretty uneventful afternoon. Kelly came home and we went to get Jason and Ellen's truck so we could pick up our refrigerator in Slidell on Monday afternoon, and ended up having dinner at IHOP because it was open and there wasn't a line.

Monday morning we stayed at the house while our kitchen floor was grouted. After he was finished around 3pm, we finally were able to head over to Slidell. Unfortunately, traffic was heavy on the interstate, especially after we passed the I-10/I-59/I-12 split and were taking I-12 the few miles west to the exit with Sears at the mall. As we were driving the truck suddenly lost power completely, so we had to coast over to the shoulder, and it was ironic that we ended up at the exit we were going to get off at anyway. Too bad the car was stalled out and we had to sit in the hot sun waiting for the tow truck AAA had dispatched. It took an hour and a half, but they were really nice people and actually ended up towing the truck back to Jason's mechanic in Gulfport after we were originally told that they would only tow to a 'place of safety' in Slidell. We met Jason at the rest area in Mississippi where he had driven with our Altima so we could have the tow truck follow us to the mechanic. Having AAA+ with 100 miles free towing is a definite plus and worth the annual renewal fee, just for situations like this. It was getting pretty late by the time we were heading back home and instead of stopping at McAlister's to get a sandwich for dinner, we opted instead to get ice cream at the ice cream shop in Gulfport to snack on while driving home then have some ramen for dinner. Oh so healthy, but it sure was good ice cream. Still no refrigerator sucked though.

This morning I got up early and rode my bike 14.5 miles around Diamondhead before it got too hot. Later in the morning I picked up Kim, my supervisor, so we could meet the other two asst. supervisors for lunch and then go to the office and pick up some things. It was nice to sit and chat with all of them. I hate to admit it, but I actually miss some (the key word here) of my co-workers and not having a regular routine. We loaded 4 boxes of pending applications into the trunk of the car so I can take them up to Hattiesburg on Friday morning. After getting back home I called Kelly so we could meet in Slidell since she was able to borrow her friend Bobbie's truck. I arrived first at our designated spot (Starbucks Coffee of course). It was nice to be able to again have a frappucino after yesterday being teased by the truck being broken down and turning around in the Walmart parking lot with the tow track with the Starbucks just a few hundred feet away and not being able to get anything. We then went to Sears across the street and they loaded the refrigerator into the back and Kelly and I then managed to get the straps tied around it surprisingly well enough to keep it in the truck. Jason and Ellen came over after we arrived home (I called them when we left Slidell) and helped us unload it from the truck, move it into the house, and clean it up a bit. It feels really good to have such great friends that will loan you their truck and friends that will help you move your appliances. It's plugged in and working well. Tomorrow morning I'll head over to Walmart and Sam's Club to get groceries and fill it up with 'real' food. No more processed dinners for us for awhile. Yay!

Kelly has updated the blog briefly when she could over the past month. She's given a few thoughts about the whole Hurricane Katrina experience, and I've had a few of my own. When we were in Atlanta, it was convenient that the hotel did accept pets, but it was kind of a 'ghetto' hotel. The first room we were in was nice and the cats were slowly adjusting to it, but after the second night, the room we were in on the first floor had water pouring in through the window as Atlanta was receiving the downgraded Katrina in the form of strong winds and heavy rain. The hotel switched us to a room upstairs that was similar, but when I started to move some of our luggage I found the room in disarray with the bed taken apart completely. They quickly put it together and threw some sheets on it, so we had a new place to stay, although it must have had a stronger dog odor because the cats both hid underneath the couch (Josie) or bed (Tura) for the rest of the stay. The neighbors next door were also noisy and annoying, so we made the decision on Wed. that we would drive up to my sister's apt. in Des Moines. It was there or Kelly's aunt's house in Grand Rapids, MI (about the same distance driving), and after much thought we decided upon Des Moines. We left early Thur. morning and drove to a suburb on the west side of St. Louis to stay the night. This hotel was great and the cats really seemed to enjoy it, despite having to again pack up and travel in the car, which they do not like at all. We arrived early Friday afternoon in Des Moines for a week at my sister's which the cats grew to tolerate. They could spend the day and night lounging in the window sills since she has screens and keeps the windows open almost all of the time. Des Moines was actually a pretty nice little town. It's a college town (my sister is going to Des Moines University for her degree as a doctor of osteopathy), but is definitely growing with other business and is also the capital city. Strangely enough both Kelly and I could see ourselves living there, or at least in a town that size. It was good to have a little more stability than a hotel room while we were evacuees and be able to leave the cats by themselves as we went to shop at the mall and see some movies the week we were there. We ended up going to see 'Happy Endings' and 'Broken Flowers', two independent films we had been wanting to see and since the indie theatre in New Orleans is non-existant now, we figured we should go while we had the chance. Both were really good films, although 'Broken Flowers' had a less than satisfying ending, but I guess that's to be expected from quirky Jim Jarmusch. The soundtracks of both films were great and we ended up purchasing both on cd while in Des Moines. We left Des Moines on Sat. Sept. 10 loaded up with supplies and left the cats at my sister's until we could assess the area and safety of bringing them home. We drove all the way to Memphis, checked into our hotel, then went to find a barbecue place that Bobby Flay had mentioned on a special barbecue show on the Food Network. It's called Neely's (one of two brothers owns this one and the other owns another one across town) and had some damn fine food. I got smoked turkey breast with barbecue sauce and Kelly got ribs. It was a mighty good meal. The next morning we awoke early and headed south towards home. Even as we got closer to Jackson and south of the capital it was really amazing to see the damage. And we've been home for about two weeks now and have both seen quite a bit of damage, but we still haven't seen the worst of it right off the beach or south of the railroad tracks. Part of me wants to, but at the same time I don't want to get in the way, and just yesterday Jason was telling us that he had finally gone down to Waveland where his brother and wife had lived and were building a new home, both of which were destroyed, and Jason said he was shocked by the devastation and how depressing it was. Our lives on the coast will never be the same, and we were some of the most fortunate ones who really have nothing to complain about. We'll probably post some photos in the coming days to show what is impossible to describe unless you see it in person. All the newschannels have shown constant coverage of both Katrina and Rita, but it doesn't do it any justice at all until you see it all in person. Right now just riding my bike around Diamondhead is surreal with the mountains of debris piled in front of houses on the sides of the road, and one of the most odd things I saw today was a baby grand piano with broken legs, the top missing, and laying in a ditch from one of the larger homes on the Jourdan River that had been flooded out. It's things like that you don't expect to see.

I also have to say that while we did evacuate for two weeks, it was a rollercoaster of emotions inside, but some things/gestures that were made by strangers just made me feel good. When we were in Atlanta I went to a Starbucks and was asking if they knew where a public library was so we could get to a computer and check if there was any news about Diamondhead as well as check email. The barista was nice and gave me some directions, but also introduced me to a 'regular' with his laptop and this total stranger was very helpful in looking up the telephone numbers and websites for FEMA (a possible mistake in hindsight?) and MEMA for me. We ended up finding a Kinko's later with internet access, and while I was there one day looking for hotels and calling on my cell phone to inquire about pets, the woman sitting next to me said she expressed empathy and if she wasn't leaving town the next day she would have let me use her computer/internet at her house (which would have been free). It was a kind gesture that wasn't unappreciated. Also, driving through Missouri and seeing the National Guard convoys from wherever, most likely heading towards the coast made me feel like there's something good about the military. While we were in Des Moines the local news had stories about relief efforts and how different organizations were raising funds and getting together supplies and driving down to the coast with help. I mean it brings a welling up of tears to see an 8 year old kid selling lemonade and donating all the money to help victims of Katrina. Yeah, I don't normally show it, but sometimes I'm kind of a sap. Just today we were also talking about it with some friends how of all the relief efforts, churches and religious organizations are the ones who had the greatest outpouring of support and were the first ones to get down to the coast with food, water, clothes, and more. There is some real good that can be done by religious institutions. A lot better than some of the red tape created by governments and fuck ups within the federal bureaucracy of FEMA and the Red Cross (although if you want to help out, make donations to them or the Salvation Army).

Finally, thanks to all of our friends who emailed or tried(?) to call us (we won't have a land line until Dec, so email or call our cellphones) to see if we were okay, but honestly, keeping in touch more often would be nice as well. It's nice to know that you are trying to get in touch in case we're dead, but then I guess we wouldn't be able to respond. I'm not saying it doesn't go both ways because I am the first to admit I'm bad about keeping in touch with people, but since we have limited email access, writing a letter is just as effective. We do finally have mail service and it would be nice to receive something other than bills and junk mail. Here's our address if anyone is interested:
1082 Pueo Court
Diamondhead, MS 39525

-posted by Chris

Friday , 23 Sep 05      

Just a quick update. Chris and I are doing well... power came back last TH while we were in Arkansas. So we quickly flipped the breakers when we got back home with the cats and did happy dances as the air conditioning came back to life. We've had intermittent hiccups with the power since then (including a time when someone nearby cut a tree down on the power line...luckily power trucks were nearby and fixed the problem). So life is beginning to return to normal in some aspects. We're still without a refrigerator, but ordered one from Sears and will be picking it up this Monday. In the meantime, FEMA is keeping us supplied with ice...and that is working for now. Mail service is back. My mom sent me a package from Michigan - turkey jerky for Chris and apples for me. Yum! We don't have a home phone yet...which means that we also don't have internet at home. Bellsouth told Chris that our service should be restored near the end of November?! Let's hear it for Bellsouth! (boo hiss) I am at work today and have been working all week. A lot of times it's difficult to get my head straight and focused on work, but when I can it makes for a good escape and slight sense of accomplishment. Chris did some work at home this week plus went to Waveland Tuesday to sign people up for Medicaid. Word must not have filtered out to the locals, because only 2 people showed up. Of course, right now there is free medical service in most areas.

In other news...I have tile being delivered tonight. We bought it before the storm, intending to tile the kitchen. The contractor will be over tomorrow to start working on it, unless Hurricane Rita changes his mind. Speaking of that wench... looks like she'll be hitting a little closer than originally expected. Should be a stormy weekend. We started getting outer bands yesterday. I just hope the tarps on the roof hold up. I don't know if our ceiling can hold up to more water. At least our insurance adjustors came by yesterday to take pictures/notes. Hopefully we'll hear from our insurance company soon and will then have a $$ amount idea for contractors. I'm sure we'll end up getting ripped off...I think prices have gone up quite a bit since the storm. We shall see...

Anyway...just wanted to let people know that we're doing ok. The blog will be updated irregularly until we get internet. We might have to say nuts to DSL and look into satellite or cable service. I don't much care for Bellsouth anyway, so it would be no big loss. So until the next time...

-posted by Kelly

Friday , 16 Sep 05      

Today Chris and I are in Fort Smith Arkansas. We came here yesterday to meet his parents and pick up our cats. We'll be heading back down to Diamondhead in a short while. It's hard to describe what it's like down there. Our house is in pretty good shape, some roof/ceiling damage, many downed trees... but livable. We are so lucky compared to many others down there. We still don't have power and phones , but hopefully that will be back soon. Then we can start updating the blog more regularly. Until then, know that we are safe and attempting to get back to some sense of normalcy. Although things aren't really going to be "normal" down there for a long time.


-posted by Kelly

Thursday , 08 Sep 05      

Just to let y'all know...Chris and I are safe in Des Moines where we've been staying the last week with Chris' sister, Katie. The cats are here with us and seem to be adjusting fairly well. We evacuated the Sunday before Katrina to Atlanta. It was kind of a last second decision. I had woken up at 3am that morning having a near-panic attack. I made hotel reservations at a place that would take pets. When Chris woke up, we boarded up the house and hit the road. The cats were not happy, but at least we knew they'd be safe. After the first week we really didn't know what was going on with our home & local area. We were unable to get ahold of anyone by phone and the news was looking grim. But on our way to Iowa we heard from Chris' boss that our house appeared to be ok. A few days ago I was able to find a NOAA image of our neighborhood and saw that our house looked fine except for some roof damage. We don't know how bad it is, but feel pretty lucky. The last few days we have been collecting stuff to bring back with us (food, water, propane, chainsaw, etc...). We plan to head back this weekend. I imagine our house will smell nasty, maybe have some mold damage, and the unspecified roof damage. But compared to many friends we were extremely lucky. Several friends have nothing left.

We will try to update the blog when we can. Who knows how soon we'll get power and internet back at the house. I'm sure we'll have more stories and pictures at that time. In the meantime, please continue supporting the various charities who are helping that area out. I'm usually not one for religion, but any prayers or kind thoughts you can forward on to the region we call home is greatly appreciated.

-posted by Kelly